Sunday, December 11, 2005

LET YOUR LIGHT SHINEEE

Let Your Light Shine
Monday, 11/28/2005


You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill can not be hidden. No one after lighting a lamp puts it under a bushel basket, but rather on a lamp stand and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works.


So many of us seem to be afraid to let our light shine. By that I mean to bring ourselves fully into the world, shining as brightly as possible without reservations or apologies. There are lots of reasons for this phenomenon. In my own case it was because of being raised in a dysfunctional environment where it was dangerous to speak out or even be noticed. My survival strategy was to become as invisible as I could make myself. Over the years I got very good at it.It was about half way through my forties that I realized I was missing life somehow. I began to explore this "dark emptiness inside" and made a great discovery; I had always been a spectator of life and never a participant! At that moment I made a promise to myself to get off the bench and on to the playing field. I decided I would make a difference in the outcome of the game, not just watch it unfold.",1]
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The game of life can be fun to watch but it is a whole lot more fun and fulfilling to play, even if we get knocked around from time to time.
"There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you."
~Marianne Williamson
Make it a fun week.
Love and blessings,
Rick and PatriciaNamaste
What does a 12 step program for procrastinators look like?
A room of empty chairs!
Have you ever thought about why you procrastinate?

Years ago I discovered that my tendency to procrastinate had its roots inteenage rebellion against my mother! When I realized how littlevalue that rebellion had for me as an adult, I could effectivelychange my behavior. Procrastination is a habit, and one that canbe changed- if you are willing. If you have a big project or bigdream, procrastinating will just delay it forever and find youregretting the lack of action later.When I was working on my PhD dissertation, I found myselfdelaying for months because it was such as huge task. FinallyI made a deal with myself: I would work on it every morningfor 2 hours. Once I did that, I could do anything I wanted to forthe rest of the day! What happened is I started getting involvedwith the project, working 5 to 7 hours a day on it, and the draftwas finished in 6 weeks.

1. Start by taking care of some of those small tasks right away.When you do, congratulate yourself. Go to the mirror and praiseyourself.

2. Create some affirmations for your new way to deal with things.“It feels great to be taking care of things easily and quickly!”(Note- do not use the word procrastination in your affirmationsbecause that gives your subconscious mind the very image ofwhat you want to change.)

3. List a few “instant tasks.” What are some immediate thingsyou could take care of?

4. If you’re working on a big project that seems daunting, setaside a short block of time to work on it, say 15 – 30 minutes.Establish mini-deadlines.

5. Set priorities. What are the most important tasks that needto be accomplished? Write them down and schedule them.

6. Use the magic “if.” I just can’t, but IF I could, what would I do?
do something mindless like typing up the book list or the table ofcontents.

7. Recognize any fears, breathe, and let them go.

8. Identify your most creative time during the day and schedulethat time for your project.

9. Ask yourself, “How will I feel in 5 years if I don’t put energytoward this goal?”

10. Stop judging yourself for procrastinating. Accept yourself, evenwhen you are procrastinating. Then forgive yourself and get going!

Feel free to forward this to friends and family with our copyright intact.Have a great week-end!Love and blessings, Patricia and Rickwww.heartinspired.com© Heart Inspired Presentations, 2005Inspiring people the world over to a higher level of thinking about who they are,what they\'ve got, and how to have a more powerful positive impact on the worldaround them.If you no longer wish to receive communication from us:http://autocontactor.com/app/r.asp?ID\u003d34998200&ARID\u003d0To update your contact information:http://autocontactor.com/app/r.asp?c\u003d1&ID\u003d34998200",0]
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