think about this

LOVE

"A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved." I paraphrase the Great Oz, from The Wizard of Oz.

So be loved.

Uh…how exactly does one be loved? Well, it helps to love. In fact, the more we love, the more we are loved. Loving really is an investment, and love is the return on investment. Remember that the best way to have a friend is to be a friend.

Loving means to care about others, to do good for other people rather than judging them. In fact, to love somebody is to be his friend.

So perhaps a heart is judged by how much we love, after all.